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Originally posted by znsho
You are welcome to hear her side. I have nothing to hide. That's the whole point. By the way, it's not 'the other girl' but 'other girls' as takes her fancy. It could be anyone she is jealous of!!!!
She may just feel insecure for some reason.

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Originally posted by Bad wolf
She's a women, what did you expect?
Men can be just as jealous as women.

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Originally posted by Nordlys
Men can be just as jealous as women.
Yes, but in different ways.
Men and women are very different.

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Originally posted by Bad wolf
Yes, but in different ways.
Men and women are very different.
So in what ways is their jealousy different? I don't think men and women differ much when it comes to jealousy.

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Originally posted by Mephisto2
5. ask yourself: does my gf have a point?
6) show her this thread

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Originally posted by Nordlys
So in what ways is their jealousy different? I don't think men and women differ much when it comes to jealousy.
I would say that their differences would be more to do with how they would tackle the problem of jealousy not the feeling of jealousy itself.

But in all fairness I'm hardly experienced in the jealousy department and so can't really explain my feelings and approaches to it at all really.

Edited for spelling.

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Originally posted by huckleberryhound
6) show her this thread
She's read it and, just maybe, she is beginning to trust me.

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Tell her you want to get married - but only if she gets her head sorted out.


Failing that, apply to go on the Jeremy Kyle Show [Or the Jerry Springer Show, if you're in his neck of the woods]

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Originally posted by znsho
She's read it and, just maybe, she is beginning to trust me.
🙂

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Remind yourself that the reason she's doing it is because she loves you and wants you to herself because she feels lucky to have you. I mean, it may not be pleasant when she does that, but she is doing it for a nice reason. That could help you put up with it until something can be done to stop it.

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Originally posted by znsho
I love my girlfriend but she is destroying the relationship because of her jealousy. Examples: 1) I viewed a house with a view to buy it. It happened to be near a girl I once knew (not as a lover). That girl does not even live nearby anymore, but my girlfriend screamed at me that I wanted to be near her. It's ridiculous. 2) Sometimes too tired to make love. Reaction? 'You love someone else, don't you?' Then pillows rain down on me.

Wot I gonna do?
Here's some sound advice - do her, and right after you get off tell her it's over.

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Originally posted by cmsMaster
Here's some sound advice - do her, and right after you get off tell her it's over.
I think you may have missed the part where he says he loves her and doesn't want to end the relationship.

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Originally posted by Nordlys
I think you may have missed the part where he says he loves her and doesn't want to end the relationship.
What!? He's insane! My idea is better than his.

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Originally posted by chrissyb
i think it's not what you are going to do, but what she is going to do (bearing in mind we are only hearing your side). she needs to get her self-esteem in check and stop comparing herself with this other girl.
Very intuitive, chrissy.