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I have suspected it for quite sometime. I have seen signs, but I do not snoop into her e-mail or follow her or anything but I suspect that my wife may be having an affair. Are there any signs that deffinatly point yes other than profane ones. I am kind of scared to just ask her.

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Originally posted by deathbypawn
I have suspected it for quite sometime. I have seen signs, but I do not snoop into her e-mail or follow her or anything but I suspect that my wife may be having an affair. Are there any signs that deffinatly point yes other than profane ones. I am kind of scared to just ask her.

DBP
Check her underwear. The drippings faintly continue for a spell.

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Originally posted by deathbypawn
I have suspected it for quite sometime. I have seen signs, but I do not snoop into her e-mail or follow her or anything but I suspect that my wife may be having an affair. Are there any signs that deffinatly point yes other than profane ones. I am kind of scared to just ask her.

DBP
Spouses suspected of having an affair are probably 9 times out of 10(pulled that figure out of air so don't quote me on it) having an affair...there are reasons you suspect it..things that she does. If you really want to find out for sure but don't want things to be ruined if she isn't then you should just follow her one day or have somebody else follow her for you.

p.s. If she really is cheating on you then I am sorry for the pain that you will endure. also if you do find that she is cheating do NOT file for a divorce right away if that is what you plan on doing...make sure you have all your ducks lined up so that she can't make your life miserable in court.

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Originally posted by deathbypawn
I have suspected it for quite sometime. I have seen signs, but I do not snoop into her e-mail or follow her or anything but I suspect that my wife may be having an affair. Are there any signs that deffinatly point yes other than profane ones. I am kind of scared to just ask her.

DBP
hire a private eye to follow her and , if necessary, gather evidence. at least you'll know.

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After 28 years of marriage, I don't think that I'd be that bent out of shape about it.

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Originally posted by badmoon
After 28 years of marriage, I don't think that I'd be that bent out of shape about it.
I would be pissed. 😠 She married him because she says she loved him and only him! Then she goes and screws another guy! wtf is up with that! 😠

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if you find out she's been spreading it around, take her on a holiday to Saudi Arabia and denounce her there.

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Originally posted by Iron Monkey
if you find out she's been spreading it around, take her on a holiday to Saudi Arabia and denounce her there.
Or you can yell out in the middle of the street that she said Alah is a pimple on a horses butt(or maybe something even worse)

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Originally posted by tomtom232
I would be pissed. 😠 She married him because she says she loved him and only him! Then she goes and screws another guy! wtf is up with that! 😠
To each his own. But this guy suspects but doesn't want to check on it for fear of violating her privacy. A sure recipe for doom and gloom. I'd rather find out and go from there.

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Originally posted by deathbypawn
I have suspected it for quite sometime. I have seen signs, but I do not snoop into her e-mail or follow her or anything but I suspect that my wife may be having an affair. Are there any signs that deffinatly point yes other than profane ones. I am kind of scared to just ask her.

DBP
If you are not called Eustace and she calls out "Eustace, go Eustace, ooh Eustace more Eustace" when you make love that is a fairly good sign she may be having an affair. 😛

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Originally posted by adramforall
If you are not called Eustace and she calls out "Eustace, go Eustace, ooh Eustace more Eustace" when you make love that is a fairly good sign she may be having an affair. 😛
I wouldn't taint my dick if I suspected her being with another man.

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Originally posted by deathbypawn
I have suspected it for quite sometime. I have seen signs, but I do not snoop into her e-mail or follow her or anything but I suspect that my wife may be having an affair. Are there any signs that deffinatly point yes other than profane ones. I am kind of scared to just ask her.

DBP
If she is living a lie sooner or later it'll begin to take a toll

on her health... guilt (if her conscience is still intact) produces

psychosomatic illness. Too bad you are unable to speak

openly with her. That very lack of rapport, sadly, almost seems

to be both the diagnosis and prognosis writing on the wall.


Friend, my heart goes out to you. Throw yourself into your work.

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Originally posted by deathbypawn
I have suspected it for quite sometime. I have seen signs, but I do not snoop into her e-mail or follow her or anything but I suspect that my wife may be having an affair. Are there any signs that deffinatly point yes other than profane ones. I am kind of scared to just ask her.

DBP
Look at it this way. If she is cheating, you get a freebie!

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The funny thing is her sex drive seams to be in high gear, I am getting more than I ever have in our marriage...and she has been working alot of hours and is currently out with "the girls" right now...she said she would be home at 10:30 it is now 12:05

DBP


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