Originally posted by deathbypawnBecause you're soft?
I mustered up enough gut to sit down and ask her and she admitted to the affair. So why is it that I was the one that had to leave?
Seriously, I can only assume this is a windup, but if not: grow a pair, seek some legal advice and (if you want it) ensure time with your kids!
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Originally posted by deathbypawnIf she wasn't happy she may have had the affair as a way out of the marriage. It's much easier then sorting things out. But is it over? You said you have two childern. I know tow couples who have recovered from the betrail and hurt of an affair, it can be done.
I mustered up enough gut to sit down and ask her and she admitted to the affair. So why is it that I was the one that had to leave? If I only knew some wicked hot chick in Southern New Hampshire to even the score. I am not sure what will happen now...we have two kids and a morgage and everything else.
DBP
I second what Ragnorak said, I hope you are spinning us a yarn. But sadly it dose happen.
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Originally posted by deathbypawnIf she cheated, you should stay in the house, document her infidelity, and get custody of the children on the grounds that she is morally bankrupt, then she can pay you child support.
I mustered up enough gut to sit down and ask her and she admitted to the affair. So why is it that I was the one that had to leave? If I only knew some wicked hot chick in Southern New Hampshire to even the score. I am not sure what will happen now...we have two kids and a morgage and everything else.
DBP
Originally posted by deathbypawnWTF MAN!! Holy sh;t that's the without doubt the wettest story i think i've ever heard!! By the sounds of things, SHE is the one that has somewhere else to go, not you! Get back in that house this INSTANT and stand...your ...ground! WTF are you doing leaving after her infidelity??? That is just wrong on so many levels i don't know where to start!!
I mustered up enough gut to sit down and ask her and she admitted to the affair. So why is it that I was the one that had to leave? If I only knew some wicked hot chick in Southern New Hampshire to even the score. I am not sure what will happen now...we have two kids and a morgage and everything else.
DBP
One thing you're gonna learn pretty quick is that, should you go down the custody line, women stand a 95% chance of winning based on their gender. You really don't want to be conceding anything right now cos you're gonna lose a lot of battles real soon, whether you like it or not.
DO NOT give things up that you don't have to! You will regret it later. As painful as this situation must be for you right now, do not let her start dictating terms to you, cos you'll be lucky if you get a fair slice of the cake as it is! This problem is her doing, NOT yours!!! Stand up for yourself cos the law will not be on your side!!
Originally posted by MarinkatombThat's the way it goes people don't you know!?
WTF MAN!! Holy sh;t that's the without doubt the wettest story i think i've ever heard!! By the sounds of things, SHE is the one that has somewhere else to go, not you! Get back in that house this INSTANT and stand...your ...ground! WTF are you doing leaving after her infidelity??? That is just wrong on so many levels i don't know where to start!!
Originally posted by deathbypawncheck out Nolo Books' divorce law guides. they're probably at the local library.
I mustered up enough gut to sit down and ask her and she admitted to the affair. So why is it that I was the one that had to leave? If I only knew some wicked hot chick in Southern New Hampshire to even the score. I am not sure what will happen now...we have two kids and a morgage and everything else.
DBP
Originally posted by Pawn QweenPerhaps they swapped 50% of their kids too, for the sake of consistency.
Has the other guy moved in yet? Is he married?
I know two couples who were good friends for years, they divorced and swapped husbands. It was strange to see them together, but they are happy with the arrangement. Must have been confusing for the kids though.
Originally posted by MarinkatombAbsolutely! Go home, put the TV on, have a drink and relax. You don't have to do what she wants ever again. You are on your own. You are free. Do what you want. She does what she wants after all.
WTF MAN!! Holy sh;t that's the without doubt the wettest story i think i've ever heard!! By the sounds of things, SHE is the one that has somewhere else to go, not you! Get back in that house this INSTANT and stand...your ...ground! WTF are you doing leaving after her infidelity??? That is just wrong on so many levels i don't know where to start!!
If anyone leaves it must be her. Otherwise you will almost certainly lose everything.
Take control of your life today! This is an important day. Stand up for yourself, you deserve it. Good luck!
Originally posted by deathbypawnNever, ever leave without the express direction of your lawyer. I'm very sorry that you have to deal with this. However, you immediately need to get a grip, talk to a lawyer, protect your finances and pursue custody of your children. Do not even the score, do not type anymore crap on the internet, do not put anything in writing, so not e-mail friends. Assume everything you do will come up in court. Return to the house unless otherwise directed as this can be considered abandonment.
I mustered up enough gut to sit down and ask her and she admitted to the affair. So why is it that I was the one that had to leave? If I only knew some wicked hot chick in Southern New Hampshire to even the score. I am not sure what will happen now...we have two kids and a morgage and everything else.
DBP
Look, for your own sake and the sake of your children, you need to man up. You must literally focus on crushing this woman in court, getting custody of the kids and collecting evidence of the affair. Do not give her anything.
Strap on a spine, check to make sure that you still have your balls and bulldoze this whore.
Originally posted by deathbypawnYou have my utmost sympathies. File for divorce but beat her so badly in court she leaves with nothing. Let the heroic new man take care of her.
I mustered up enough gut to sit down and ask her and she admitted to the affair. So why is it that I was the one that had to leave? If I only knew some wicked hot chick in Southern New Hampshire to even the score. I am not sure what will happen now...we have two kids and a morgage and everything else.
DBP
Unless of course you treated her badly. In which case she is justified.