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DBP,
Hunker down. Lawyer up. Begin a diary (dates, times, events,
conversations) immediately and keep it in your briefcase.
It represents a 'contemporary record', which your attorney will
appreciate and from which the judge will realize the responsible
focus of your character. Your marriage may be over but your
joint parenting responsiblities continue indefinitely. One last
suggestion... spare the innocent children your verbal battles.
-gb
P.S. Please consider the possibility of a female attorney, if there's
a top notch one with a proven record in your area. Will negate
the public courtroom spectre of two men 'ganging up' on a poor
helpless mother. Also her intuitive insights will prove invaluable.
Originally posted by Hand of HecateWow... HoH, you are RIGHT on the money. I feel this thread just might be a fun hoax, but if not... you should give this user your phone number for more advice.
Never, ever leave without the express direction of your lawyer. I'm very sorry that you have to deal with this. However, you immediately need to get a grip, talk to a lawyer, protect your finances and pursue custody of your children. Do not even the score, do not type anymore crap on the internet, do not put anything in writing, so not e-mail frien ...[text shortened]...
Strap on a spine, check to make sure that you still have your balls and bulldoze this whore.
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Originally posted by Hand of HecateDBP, HoH has got it exactly right.
Never, ever leave without the express direction of your lawyer. I'm very sorry that you have to deal with this. However, you immediately need to get a grip, talk to a lawyer, protect your finances and pursue custody of your children. Do not even the score, do not type anymore crap on the internet, do not put anything in writing, so not e-mail frien ...[text shortened]...
Strap on a spine, check to make sure that you still have your balls and bulldoze this whore.
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Originally posted by PhlabibitWell, my suggestions from here on out involve a shovel, a bag of lime, garbage bags, and duct tape.
Wow... HoH, you are RIGHT on the money. I feel this thread just might be a fun hoax, but if not... you should give this user your phone number for more advice.
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Edit: Seriously though, I feel bad for this guy, my phone number is 1-207-228-0146.
Is it safe to assume that you've never, ever had an affair yourself nor done anything abusive? The bandwagon seems to be missing a couple of wheels. My deepest sympathies if your side of the street is perfectly clean and orderly and this really is a case of you totally upholding your end of the bargain while she got bored or whatever and violated hers.
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Originally posted by PhlabibitYoung distraught father spilling his bleeding and frustrated guts
Wow... HoH, you are RIGHT on the money. I feel this thread just might be a fun hoax, but if not... you should give this user your phone number for more advice.
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in stream of consciousness waves to strangers... "a fun hoax"?
Originally posted by Grampy Bobbythis thread is fake...
Young distraught father spilling his bleeding and frustrated guts
in stream of consciousness waves to strangers... "a fun hoax"?
1. If my wife cheated on me..Pride would not let me post it to all of you
2. If my wife admitted to it..I would tell nobody i knew.. she would just be missing... wierd
3. After she and the man either ended up missing/dead/severely handicapped... you wouldn't see me crying...how often do you get the chance to erase a mistake like getting married
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Originally posted by AThousandYoungOccupied?
It's currently occupied by the Mexican Army. Yep. The Mexican Army is massed at the gates of San Diego while the US Army is in the Middle East.
For being a Hispanic yourself, dude, you are too Americanized already.
Not occupied at all. Just some military surveillance to appease the media and keep the drug cartels 'underground', so the business is not affected and the money keeps flowing into MX while the stash keeps flowing into... oh well... yes... your hands!
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Originally posted by deathbypawnSorry this happened to you, but unless you guys can agree on the financials, I wouldn't leave the house unless you can't control yourselves around the kids. You may have to live together a short time til you figure things out and this is difficult to say the least. Fighting in court is not so easy, nothing is guaranteed and it's effing expensive. Why do that? Why spend your family's money on that unless you have no choice?
I mustered up enough gut to sit down and ask her and she admitted to the affair. So why is it that I was the one that had to leave? If I only knew some wicked hot chick in Southern New Hampshire to even the score. I am not sure what will happen now...we have two kids and a morgage and everything else.
DBP
Wait it out, talk, it takes a while to figure out the next step.
Good luck to you.
Originally posted by SeitseI smoke home-grown, my friend. Well California grown that is. I don't buy from the street any more.
Occupied?
For being a Hispanic yourself, dude, you are too Americanized already.
Not occupied at all. Just some military surveillance to appease the media and keep the drug cartels 'underground', so the business is not affected and the money keeps flowing into MX while the stash keeps flowing into... oh well... yes... your hands!
🙂
Originally posted by SeitseThey've disarmed the locals...well the police anyway...
Occupied?
For being a Hispanic yourself, dude, you are too Americanized already.
Not occupied at all. Just some military surveillance to appease the media and keep the drug cartels 'underground', so the business is not affected and the money keeps flowing into MX while the stash keeps flowing into... oh well... yes... your hands!
🙂