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Originally posted by coquetteThat is true, you will run into of bunch of internet trolls whose jokes certainly won't make feel you better. (of course not all will make bad jokes but some will). I agree with one of the previous posts - if you have strong reasons to believe so, ask her directly.
the very last thing you want to do is take advice offered by the membership of Red Hot Pawn.
Originally posted by deathbypawnYou can take a look this!
I have suspected it for quite sometime. I have seen signs, but I do not snoop into her e-mail or follow her or anything but I suspect that my wife may be having an affair. Are there any signs that deffinatly point yes other than profane ones. I am kind of scared to just ask her.
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Originally posted by deathbypawn1) Suddenly being very coy and scretive about her typing on the internet.
I have suspected it for quite sometime. I have seen signs, but I do not snoop into her e-mail or follow her or anything but I suspect that my wife may be having an affair. Are there any signs that deffinatly point yes other than profane ones. I am kind of scared to just ask her.
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2) Increased activity on mobile 'phone / internet.
3) Working increased number of hours.
4) Business trips.
5) Taking more interest in her appearance, including renewed interest in weight loss.
6) Less interest in the bedroom OR, paradoxically, getting new ideas for the bedroom romps with you.
7) Subtle increase in confidence.
8) Challenge her and see it immediately in her eyes / denials.
The lsit can go on.
Originally posted by deathbypawnAre you working on the why or just the if? Even if it turns out that she's not yet having one, it's a good time to look at the marriage and see if there's a reason that would make her consider having one.
I have suspected it for quite sometime. I have seen signs, but I do not snoop into her e-mail or follow her or anything but I suspect that my wife may be having an affair. Are there any signs that deffinatly point yes other than profane ones. I am kind of scared to just ask her.
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Originally posted by pawnhandlerExactly! I have already said this....She will not be having one if there isn't motivation!
Are you working on the why or just the if? Even if it turns out that she's not yet having one, it's a good time to look at the marriage and see if there's a reason that would make her consider having one.
I mustered up enough gut to sit down and ask her and she admitted to the affair. So why is it that I was the one that had to leave? If I only knew some wicked hot chick in Southern New Hampshire to even the score. I am not sure what will happen now...we have two kids and a morgage and everything else.
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