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Divorced after 25 happy years

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@kellyjay said
I cannot tell you what you think; I don't have your mental abilities; it is your analogy, not mine.
But I am asking you what you think. Do you identify - in terms of the OP - with B's attitude/belief?



@fmf said
It is not "my world", KellyJay, it's THE world in which we both live. People get divorced after being married for a long time. It happens. You can't pretend it doesn't.
It is your world when you set up all the rules, create and define all the definitions for everything; you apply your filters to everything said and done. Nothing about this can be anything else, it is you being sovereign overall there is around you, everything is as you say it is. Even when people say things you disagree with, you turn whatever is said into something not worth hearing or listening to.

Someone else has to be sovereign overall for it not to be your own making, and you deny that.


@kellyjay said
I gave you my questions and concerns about your analogy. I told you I went through one too, so I was not applying an analogy to yours; I shared my life when I said that. If you wonder why I said what I did, I suggest reading what I wrote.
I don't want to know about your personal life.


-Removed-
If you want to talk about my divorce and real life, we are about to leave analogy and start down this path; if we do, your life will become part of that discussion. Do you want to do that?

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@kellyjay said
It is your world when you set up all the rules, create and define all the definitions for everything; you apply your filters to everything said and done. Nothing about this can be anything else, it is you being sovereign overall there is around you, everything is as you say it is. Even when people say things you disagree with, you turn whatever is said into something not worth hearing or listening to.
All this sheer nonsense just to squirm away from an adult allegory about loss of faith that makes the allegory you offered sound like it was written by a child!



Stop playing the victim card, KellyJay.

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@fmf said
I don't want to know about your personal life.
I was talking about your analogy, how you put it together, the words you used; you were the source and only source for all things in it; it was and still is your world!

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@fmf said
Stop playing the victim card, KellyJay.
I think there is something wrong with your ability to know what others are doing.


@kellyjay said
I was talking about your analogy, how you put it together, the words you used; you were the source and only source for all things in it; it was and still is your world!
There's nothing opaque or double-edged in the OP. It's completely straightforward. Stop wriggling.


@kellyjay said
I think there is something wrong with your ability to know what others are doing.
You are running away from an allegory for lost faith that makes your allegory for lost faith seem foolish


@kellyjay said
I don't have the answers; it is your world; I cannot tell you what you think; I don't have your mental abilities; it is your analogy, not mine.
Here is your allegory for my statements about my faith in the past having lost that faith:

If you and I were friends who lived next to one another 20 years ago, and today I deny I ever knew you 20 years ago, as a true statement! Would I be telling the truth?

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@fmf said
There's nothing opaque or double-edged in the OP. It's completely straightforward. Stop wriggling.
That is where I have a problem; you said love and 25 years of happiness led to a divorce; I'm not the one wriggling.

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