Originally posted by @whodey
Also, who here thinks that they are a good person?
I am a hardworking and law-abiding man; a faithful husband who is raising a family lovingly and thoughtfully; my working life is oriented towards serving and benefitting others rather than towards amassing wealth; I do some voluntary work [in some cases alongside religious people] for disadvantaged or vulnerable people; I am a friendly and helpful neighbour and community member; I am honest, I don't damage or hurt the people around me, and I don't seek to coerce anyone - three principles that make may behaviour basically morally sound etc. etc.
So, while I see myself as an ordinary person who is not 'better' than his friends and colleagues, and who does not do anything I think of as being extraordinary, I would say that I am a good person, yes, whodey.
In stating this, I am not hamstrung by religionist misanthropy, I am not hiding behind sanctimonious false modesty, and I am not hamstrung by doctrine-infused self-loathing to which the antidote is supposedly some specific
doubleplusgoodthink religious dogma. For these reasons, I am able to state that I am basically a good person - without thinking it is controversial to do so.
And I think ~ according to my decades of experience of living and working in almost half a dozen countries, cultures and communities in different parts of the world - that people are basically good. This fact - to my way of thinking - is what makes it normal and natural to me to have love-my-neighbour as my default setting for my interactions with others - a principle I subscribe to even though I am no longer a Christian.