25 Feb '19 10:58>
Some powerful words from St. Silouan the Athonite:
Of course, I cannot add anything to these words.
I was glad to see them today because they go back to a concept I would like to advocate that the only proper forgiveness is unconditional and not based on satisfying your ego.
If you want someone to humble themselves for you, and that is why you grant them forgiveness, you actually do not want forgiveness at all but just want to feed your sense of pride.
“We have such a law: If you forgive, it means that God has forgiven you; but if you do not forgive your brother, it means that your sin remains with you.”
+ St. Silouan the Athonite, Writings, VII.9
“Christ prayed for those that crucified Him: ‘Father, count not this sin against them; they know not what they do.’ Archdeacon Stephen prayed for those who stoned him so that the Lord would not judge this sin against them. And so we, if we wish to retain grace, must pray for our enemies. If you do not find pity on a sinner who will suffer in flames, then you do not carry the grace of the Holy Spirit, but rather an evil spirit; and while you yet live, you must free yourself from his clutches through repentance.”
— St. Silouan the Athonite
“Whoever will not love his enemies cannot know the Lord and the sweetness of the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit teaches us to love our enemies in such way that we pity their souls as if they were our own children.”
+ St. Silouan the Athonite, Wisdom from Mount Athos: The Writings of Staretz Silouan, 1866-1938, I.11
Of course, I cannot add anything to these words.
I was glad to see them today because they go back to a concept I would like to advocate that the only proper forgiveness is unconditional and not based on satisfying your ego.
If you want someone to humble themselves for you, and that is why you grant them forgiveness, you actually do not want forgiveness at all but just want to feed your sense of pride.